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Gaidheal lit a candle
Thursday, June 15, 2023
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My son has just mentioned that Jason passed away and I thought for sure he was talking about a different Jason, the Jason I remember who I haven't seen him many years was full of life, beautiful personality and extremely humble, both he and his brother I enjoyed although I knew them briefly. My son knows that circle a wee bit better than I did but I had to come home and check because surely we're talking about two different Jasons -so it saddens me see that such a vibrant life has been taken, he seems to have touched so many lives. I remember Jason as he was getting started with his own personal business and he showed me his business card and me being the English tutor pointed out a spelling error ( I wanted to make sure it was perfect before he started passing them out) and he looked at me and looked at me and then cracked up laughing he said 'you know how many people I've showed this card to and nobody's seen that mistake' I had to apologize of which he brushed It off so he made a quick call and had to get new cards made up, he accepted the correction with grace and laughter and thanked me so genuinely for such a small gesture of pointing it out .... it was about his integrity and his need to present properly a standard very rare in somebody so young...is such a sad story when such a positive energy is taken too early. Jason our lives touch briefly and I am absolutely amazed you've touched so many lives in such a positive way .. sad and sorry to hear this news... I'm not going to get into another matter but I know when you shared your thoughts and feelings about that particular situation that you were truly uncomfortable with decisions made that excluded me .. I appreciated that sensitivity...that was so YOU .. you had no reason to feel awkward it wasn't you that created that situation...thank you Jason...again, sorry to hear this news... Jason was one of the good guys.. gone much too early too soon.. it truly isn't fair
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Andy Stuart uploaded photo(s)
Tuesday, February 7, 2023
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I want to send my sincere condolences to everyone for the passing of Jason. I went back to school at age 35 in 2009-10 where I first met him at Ravensberg. I had just lost my dad, was going through divorce, and I took a new path which led me to Jason. He treated me like gold and I really enjoyed training with him. I went on to do a commercial for Ravensberg in 2010, graduated valedictorian and joined the Canadian Armed Forces. I am rolling up on year 13 with the forces and I have loved being a Military Police Officer in three different provinces. I became a Use of Force instructor and developed a passion for teaching. Jason was a significant influence on me taking this path. I talked with Jason a few weeks prior to his death and we had a great conversation. I am truly thankful for that. I would not be where I am today because of what he gave me, like so many other students. Jason was an amazing man. The definition of a true warrior.
Sincerely,
Andy Stuart
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Hugh Parker posted a condolence
Friday, October 7, 2022
Jason Spillner’s - Celebration of Life
The earth is approximately 4.54 billion years old but our life on earth is very short and unpredictable to say the least. Jason’s many legacies have been very eloquently expressed by those who love him. He was a perfect example of how to live your life to the fullest. We all have those “Debby Downer” days” where we are not quite on track. To help remedy the situation, for a moment think of Jason, his smile, his positive attitude and his endeavor to live his life to the fullest. It will help!
Many years ago, I was invited to attend (in uniform) a public relations event at Ravensberg College. I was immediately greeted by Jason and his “larger than life” smile. While expressing how happy he was to have me attend, at the same time, he was straightening my tie and brushing off my epaulettes with the back of his hand. I said to myself, “I’m in good hands!”
Peace be with you Jason and all those who love you!
Hughie and Marija Parker
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Helen Parker uploaded photo(s)
Monday, September 19, 2022
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Frank & Rose Marie Howell posted a condolence
Thursday, September 15, 2022
Our deepest condolences to Dieter, Helen, family and friends and ,especially, to Stacey, Jason’s fiancée. Our hearts are with you.
Jason burst into our lives thirty years ago where he quickly took up residence in our hearts, our home and dinner table. How he loved those big family dinners and celebrations. He always joked about joining us for dinner that first time and never leaving. For a time, Jason was a big brother toTrevor and Todd, especially during the Taekwondo years. And he supported Frank and shared in his journey to Black Belt. We will always remember Jason as the adventurous spirit he was and listening as he shared endless stories about his adventures and travels. For me it was always his eyes. They were telling you a story the moment he looked at you.
We are privileged to have been a part of Jason’s life and his journey. We join Dieter, Helen, Stacey, family and friends in mourning the loss of such a beautiful man. May your memories and love shine in our hearts as we know you will shine in heaven. We love you Jay.
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Connie Mack posted a condolence
Wednesday, September 14, 2022
To Dieter: Mein herzlichstes Beileid zum Tod von Deinem Sohn Jason. Ich glaube er hatte mal fuer eine Karneval's party von der German-Cdn Assoc. DJ gemacht, ist schon ein paar Jahre her. Liebe Gruesse von Annette Siebers (sie kauft Honig von Dir) und mir, wir sind in Gedanken bei Dir und Deiner Famile.
Connie Mack (ex German Cdn Assoc)
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Francoise lit a candle
Sunday, September 11, 2022
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It’s difficult to fathom that this amazing man who left this earth prematurely was once this adorable sweet baby boy that I met and cuddled as an infant.
Even as an infant I could see that Jason was destined to leave a mark in this world. His quiet determination, his love of life, his sense of adventure combined with his wisdom and good sense of humour made him so special.
I had the privilege to see him grow from a boy to man, an entrepreneur, a father and spouse and join the ranks of his friends and family who mourn the loss of such a great person.
May your light continue to shine on in the hearts of all those who loved you.. it will in mine.
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Jason Bernier posted a condolence
Sunday, September 11, 2022
My deepest condolences to Jason’s family. He was a great man and fantastic friend. I was fortunate to spend many years training in martial arts with Jason. He was a phenomenal teacher, entrepreneur, leader, and instiller of confidence. I was also fortunate to have had the opportunity to travel internationally to Trinidad with Jason to complete a security consulting assignment for a large multinational organization. He was a true professional and expert in his field. I am extremely saddened; yet I believe he created a legacy that is far reaching, through the positive impact he had on so many people. Great friend, true warrior, phenomenal leader, his impact is immense and perpetuates with all of us so positively influenced by knowing him.
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Miles Sweeney posted a condolence
Friday, September 9, 2022
Deepest condolences to Jason’s wife and children as well as Helen and Dieter. I remember our days in Kiwanis and the Christmas parties when our children attended. Thinking of you all at this difficult time.
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Dieter Spillner posted a condolence
Friday, September 9, 2022
Letter from the Spillner Family:
Jason’s family, Father Dieter Spillner (Helen Ford), Mother Helen Ivany Parker (John Parker), brother Derek Spillner, sister Chrystal Risley and Cynthia Veuger (Dave), stepsister Veronica Ford and Christina Payson, stepbrothers Trevor Parker (Ruby Pajares) and Curtis Parker, along with his children daughter Kya Spillner, son Krish Spillner would like to thank all of the nurses and doctors at the VG Hospital who helped with Jason’s care and quality of life during his stay.
We would also like to thank his fiancée Stacey McKinley for her love and support and unwavering dedication to Jason. His dearest friends Guy Germain, Shelley Amiro, and Chris and Sonja Johnson who stood by his side every step of the way to offer their love and support.
Jason was dearly loved by his nieces and nephews (Lucas Spillner, Calista Spillner, Alexander Risley, Cailin Veuger and predeceased nephew Matthew Veuger) along with many other extended family members including cousins, aunts, uncles and members of the Spillner, Ford, and Parker families.
As a child Jason always had a smile, kind heart, unique sense of style and an intelligence beyond his years. Jason had a great love for family and friends, all of which were very important to him. He had a passion for cooking at an early age, many interests in the health and fitness industry and constantly looked for ways to improve himself both professionally and personally.
A loving father, Jason’s children were the most important thing in his life. He shared many memories, life lessons, laughter, kindness, and wisdom with his children. Jason wanted to be a father from a young age and his children were his greatest joy in life.
He took an early interest in Martial Arts in multiple disciplines and held many certifications in self-defense training from all over the world. Jason attended Saint Mary’s University and went on to create many successful businesses based on his love for law enforcement. Most notably was his passion project Ravensberg College, where he trained and inspired many young minds in the art of law enforcement and high-end security. Jason was a well-respected by his students because of his extensive knowledge and determination to grow and mold the minds of the future generation. His kind heart, quick witted humor, dedication to his craft, and strong work ethic made him a leader in the industry that people admired.
Jason had a tremendous effect on many people and our hearts are hurting with the passing of this wonderful man, but Jason would want us to wipe away our tears, hold our heads up high and courageously live life with great love and positive energy as he always did in his own life.
There will be a celebration of Jason’s life in the near future open to anyone who wanted to share a funny story, memory, and experiences they had with Jason over the years. We want to honor who Jason was throughout his life, celebrate who he was a person and have a joyous get together over the incredible life and legacy he left us with.
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Chris Johnson lit a candle
Friday, September 9, 2022
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By now you’re gone, crossed over and started a new adventure. But maybe you’ll sneak a quick peak back and see this tribute to you, my dear friend.
Thank you for loving me and allowing me to reciprocate. Thank you for sharing your personal growth and for sharing in mine. Thank you for going beyond friendship and becoming family.
The time we had together was lovely and precious and will live in my heart forever.
Until we meet again…
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Geoffrey Lowe posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 6, 2022
I worked with Jason about 15 years ago at a security company where we were both in management.
Jason was a consummate professional with a broad depth of knowledge about the field. This was complimented by a brilliant sense of humour and the ability to see the funny side of otherwise dark subjects.
I hadn't talked to him since the company closed but frequently find myself using a turn of phrase that I heard him use first, and always attribute my usage of that to him.
He will be missed and we will speak his name. RIP, Spillner.
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Hal posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 6, 2022
I did not know Jason.sounds like a hell of a man.he has gone on before you.sorry for your loss.RIP
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Donna Mitchell posted a condolence
Tuesday, September 6, 2022
Dieter and Helen - I was saddened to see Jason's obituary today. I never knew Jason personally but he sounded like quite the guy. It must be very difficult to lose a child. It doesn't seem fair. My thoughts and prayers are with you both. Donna (and Dale)
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Stacey McKinlay uploaded photo(s)
Monday, September 5, 2022
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It has taken me a few days to get the courage to write this post. Last Wednesday morning, Aug 31, with his parents and I by his side, the love of my life Jason Spillner took his last breath and quietly passed away. Many of you know that Jason had been struggling with his health after being diagnosed with Acute Lymphoblastic Leukaemia with Lymphoma in 2019. But not once did he let that slow him down, or prevent him from having a full life. We built our dream home together last year, and would joke that Covid was simply the universe putting us closer as I not longer had to travel and we could literally spend all of our time together “palling around”. I don’t know how he did it, but even doing the most mundane task feels fun with Jay by your side! Although we did not make it to our ‘official’ wedding planned for June 10th next year, I’m so grateful we had our beautiful commitment ceremony and could celebrate our love & speak freely from the heart- I will draw on that day when I need strength.
To be honest I’m not really sure how one is expected to move forward without their best friend, their soulmate, their karmic twin flame by their side. It feels impossible. One breath at a time I suppose. And with my beautiful stepchildren Krish and Kya by my side, one step at a time.
Thank you to everyone that reached out over the past few weeks. Every day I would open his phone and read/played all of your messages to him, and continue to pour in. He is so loved, and I feel certain that he felt that love.
Many of have asked what you can do to help during this time - thank you so much. I will let you know that Jason received over 135 bags of donor plasma, as well as blood and platelets over the past 2 weeks alone. There were a few days treatment was postponed as products had to be found. Please take some time to donate blood/plasma over the next few weeks, knowing how much it will be helping someone like Jason.
❤️Oh my JJ….you would tell me all the time I am all of your tomorrows…and I will make sure to keep your spirit alive in all of mine.
To be chosen to walk you through the last chapter of your life is my greatest honour.
No more pain now honey, be free ❤️
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Master Phil Power uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 4, 2022
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I needed a day before writing anything about this incredible man. Only a select few of you will know how much Jason Spillner meant to me. We met exactly 30 years ago…I was a 15 year old who had just moved away from home on my own…I entered into a martial arts school and this is where I found my older brother Jay.
I’ll never forget the first thing he said to me. Yong-Hyok Yang and Song-ho Yang we’re teaching sparring and Jason and Chae Sok Yang we’re kicking the living hell out of each other. (Seriously like one of the fight scenes out of a movie, both are kicking and yelling and sweat is spinning off their heads. The sounds of the impacts was felt not just heard). I stood there in amazement and they finally took a break, Jason didn’t miss a beat coming over and saying “ok it’s your turn now” , from that moment our bond formed.
Jason was my mentor, my friend, my brother. We trained almost every day for 5 years together. His impact on my training and later my business is second to none, I’m not sure that he really knew how important he was in shaping me as a person and later into a law enforcement career.
Jason left after about five years to do close protection and travel the world, we were supposed to open a martial arts school together, but he stayed travelling…when he came back and say the school that I had opened, he said to me “you just couldn’t wait eh” while giving me a smile and a hug.
I worked so many concerts together with him and got into so many fights alongside many great people, including Jim Baker and Shadow Security. We shared quite a few memories and then he opened up Ravensberg College and was one of the top instructors that I have ever known. He produced some excellent officers working in all fields of law enforcement.
To this date Jason’s first wedding celebration is the number one wedding I have ever attended. It was 5 days long… and I only remember parts of it because we had so much fun and got into so much trouble.
Jason was an incredible man in so many ways. He was rough and tough on the outside, but a softie on the inside. He talked about his children often and I know you are so loved Kya Spillner and Krish Spillner. We shared many a story on the trials and tribulations of kids…he was so proud of you both.
Stacey McKinlay you are an angel. The first time he said he met you there was a glow to him like I had never seen before. He talked about your many journeys together and me talking with you lately confirms how incredibly special you are and how incredibly lucky Jay was to have you by his side every step of the way.
Lastly to Jason’s family including Derek Spillner and Dieter Spillner (whom I knew more than the rest). I have no additional words for how great this guy was. The world has lost an incredible warrior, martial artist, partner, father, son, brother and man.
Jason I love you man, you were a legend and I’ll miss you. Keep kicking in heaven.
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Shelley Amiro uploaded photo(s)
Sunday, September 4, 2022
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I know you’ll always be looking out for us. I know you’ll always be ready to send us a message of wise words when we’re being idiots, and you’ll still always be our number one fan when we do something that makes you proud. Can’t wait to give you a big bear hug someday when we make it to that beautiful place you are, because I know you’ll be waiting for us with your big cheeky grin and your giant, wide open arms… excited to show us around and be united once again.
I miss you so much already JJ. But we promise to always be here for your family and keep them safe, and to always honour your life with lots of laughter and love… and a whole lot of ‘Yeahhhhhh Buddy’s’. Thank you for touching our lives in the most incredible way that you have, and for being THE BEST friend anyone could ask for. You were our angel on earth, and you will forever be the biggest one in our hearts. Love you so, so much JJ
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Mary Parker posted a condolence
Sunday, September 4, 2022
A sister-in-law to Jason's mother, Helen, I only met him a few times, but that was all I needed to come away with the impression that he was a force of nature to be reckoned with. When I saw him last, you would never guess the hellish, painful trials he had been through. Sweet-natured with a winning smile, it was obvious he was not going to let the disease define him. A warrior indeed. The unwavering love and support of Stacey (and his family and friends) surely contributed to his positive and strong presence. I never met Stacey but have seen photos of her with Jason and I can only wonder where she got the strength to smile and carry on. The answer is love, of course, but I believe few of us could have had her guts and staying power. Stacey, one day you'll meet your fellow warrior on the other side. He's waiting for you.
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Tatjana Kozak lit a candle
Saturday, September 3, 2022
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Words cannot convey the sadness felt by your Family in Edmonton and Victoria. We weren’t close because of distance but Jason was still part of our lives by being a Nephew and Cousin. We hold you all in our hearts during this heart-wrenchingly painful time and after, when the World returns to its everyday routines but you are still numb, living with this profound Grief for the rest of your days.
May you find peace, ease and support in the Love that surrounds you.
Renate Schulz
Mark Schulz
Tatjana Kozak and Robin Sherwood
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The family of Jason Kurt Spillner uploaded a photo
Saturday, September 3, 2022
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Tristin Chipman posted a condolence
Saturday, September 3, 2022
I first met Jason in 1992, when he was a VJ with the Much Music video dance party and on tour across Canada. (This always made us laugh as it was Jason before he became the Jason all the concert crew knew). We continued to cross paths in multiple ways through the years, and it was a great source of comfort for me to walk off the bus and find Jay waiting with a smile and a hug. His strength and confidence in his abilities and in his team was a pleasure to be around. I truly feel deep sadness for the loss of his presence for all those that knew him and worked with him and will hold his memory close. Love you, Spillner xo
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